
Born n brought-up in Calcutta, the City of Joy, I have lived & worked in Gujarat & Maharashtra for 5 years of my life before I shifted to Bangalore. These places & the people I met here have taught me a lot of things which has enriched me & made me a more confident person. On the outside a no-nonsense person but at the core a dreamer like most Pisceans ... hence the Piscean Angel. :-)
Showing posts with label age. Show all posts
Showing posts with label age. Show all posts
Friday, 13 June 2008
Thursday, 12 June 2008
I feel old when…
… on seeing the rainy / cloudy skies from my office window, instead of feeling mushy & romantic inside, I catch myself worrying about the clothes hanging out to dry at home getting wet. :-)
… on coming out of the office, I spend a few seconds wondering where I parked my car in the morning.
… I watch the ever-increasing strands of grey in my hair (altho’ I pacify myself by remembering a friend who used to have a head full of grey hairs in college itself).
… I see the grown-up kids of some of my friends.
… when all & sundry, even the 1 foot taller college-going guy/gal in the building, calls me aunty.
… when I wake up some mornings with aches & pains in different parts of the body.
Addendum 1: A friend of mine who read this post & the next one told me that I should also feel old when my maid calls me "Amma". But staying in Bangalore for almost 5 years has made me realize that to the Kannadigas calling a lady Amma (mother) is the same as calling a lady Didi (older sister) is for a Bengali ... it is merely a show of respect. So that's granted. :-) However, be warned: when in Bengal, you should absolutely object to being called Boudi (bhabhi, sister-in-law) or Mashima (aunty). :-)
Addendum 2 (6th Jan, 2015): I know I am old when after returning from a trip, no matter how exotic the location or if it was my childhood home, I feel glad to be on my own turf. Home sweet home , indeed !!! Wish I could have it on wheels ...SIGH ... :-)
… on coming out of the office, I spend a few seconds wondering where I parked my car in the morning.
… I watch the ever-increasing strands of grey in my hair (altho’ I pacify myself by remembering a friend who used to have a head full of grey hairs in college itself).
… I see the grown-up kids of some of my friends.
… when all & sundry, even the 1 foot taller college-going guy/gal in the building, calls me aunty.
… when I wake up some mornings with aches & pains in different parts of the body.
Addendum 1: A friend of mine who read this post & the next one told me that I should also feel old when my maid calls me "Amma". But staying in Bangalore for almost 5 years has made me realize that to the Kannadigas calling a lady Amma (mother) is the same as calling a lady Didi (older sister) is for a Bengali ... it is merely a show of respect. So that's granted. :-) However, be warned: when in Bengal, you should absolutely object to being called Boudi (bhabhi, sister-in-law) or Mashima (aunty). :-)
Addendum 2 (6th Jan, 2015): I know I am old when after returning from a trip, no matter how exotic the location or if it was my childhood home, I feel glad to be on my own turf. Home sweet home , indeed !!! Wish I could have it on wheels ...SIGH ... :-)
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